The article features letters to 'Dear Abby,' where individuals express their challenges in dating and personal boundaries. One writer, a successful young woman, struggles to find partners who meet her high standards and is advised to consider flexibility in her expectations. Another letter discusses the discomfort with having visitors in one’s home, emphasizing the need to respect personal space, especially when dealing with anxiety. The advice suggests clear communication without feeling overly defensive about personal boundaries or feelings of loss for an ex-spouse even after many years of marriage.
"Start editing that list of yours, because limiting yourself to someone who checks all the boxes may make it difficult to find a partner with whom you can be equally yoked."
"Do not allow anyone to make you feel defensive. If you want to get your point across, simply repeat what you told me. It is succinct, it conveys your feelings, and your feelings should be respected."
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