The article presents two relationship dilemmas. The first involves a woman questioning her boyfriend Chad's marriage proposals made under anesthesia, feeling she requires a sober, genuine proposal after ten years together. The second dilemma discusses a man reminiscing about his first love and the lack of closure in their relationship, affecting his current relationship with his girlfriend. The advice emphasizes the importance of open communication, honesty about intentions, and addressing past emotional ties without rekindling old flames.
"You and Chad have 10 years invested in this relationship. If you would like to be married to him, talk with him and ask if he remembers proposing to you."
"Tell him you could not in good conscience hold him to a proposal that was made while he was under the influence of anesthesia or pain killers."
"I'm not looking to rekindle a relationship. I just feel there was never official closure to our relationship, and I suspect it has always affected my subsequent relationships."
"I love my girlfriend and feel guilty for feeling this way about my first love, even though there's no intent to reconnect."
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