After 20 years of co-ownership, a daughter wants to move out with her boyfriend while her mother wishes to stay in their shared home. The daughter explains her desire to start a new life, but her mother struggles with the idea of selling and moving. Possible solutions include finding a compromise, such as the mother buying out the daughter’s share of the house or exploring renting options together. Acknowledging the mother’s feelings is essential for navigating this transition and fostering mutual happiness.
It sounds like she's trying to come up with a compromise that keeps her from experiencing even more disruption. Because, it should be pointed out, when you move out, that's going to change a lot of things for her.
Your lives are moving at different speeds, and you have different needs right now. Is there a way that her desire to stay in her home and your desire to move to the next stage in your relationship with your boyfriend aren't in opposition?
Can she buy you out of your half of the house, either in full or gradually over time? If you want to move in with your boyfriend, but most of your cash is tied up in the house, is renting together for a year a possibility?
Part of that entails acknowledging that while she's not part of the decision-making process, her feelings and desires contribute to the overall real estate dynamic.
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