Asking Eric: I just found out my baby is not my boyfriend's
Briefly

A pregnant woman grapples with revealing to her boyfriend, Steve, that their baby may not be his as she realizes the baby is four months along, dating back to a prior relationship. Recognizing that this news could shatter their burgeoning bond, she contemplates how to communicate this in a way that preserves trust. The advice emphasizes the necessity of tough conversations for relationship health, alignment of values, and the importance of openness to maintain trust as they navigate this unexpected circumstance together.
Though the conversations you and Steve need to have may be tough, they'd be necessary for the long-term health of your relationship.
It's possible to fall head-over-heels in love in three months, but foundational work is needed to determine the alignment of your values.
You'll want to contact the father of the child to keep him abreast of your plans and allow him the chance to have a relationship with the child.
Trust is built and rebuilt over time, and it is essential to navigate this situation based on openness and honesty.
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