New Year, New You? Try Right Now, Real You
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New Year, New You? Try Right Now, Real You
"From a psychological perspective, procrastination isn't just laziness; it's a failure of self-regulation. We are engaged in a constant battle between our present self, which seeks immediate gratification and avoids discomfort, and our future self, which has goals, aspirations, and a clear vision for a better life. The problem is, the "present self" always has the home-field advantage. The brain heavily discounts the value of future rewards (a fit body in six months) in favor of immediate comfort (scrolling on the couch tonight)."
"The champagne flutes are empty, the confetti has been swept away, and we are left with the formidable list: The New Year's Resolutions. This year, we tell ourselves, will be different. We will finally get fit, learn a language, write that book, or find a better job.But by February, for the vast majority of us, that list will be a forgotten relic, a digital ghost in the notes app on our phones."
Procrastination stems from the brain favoring immediate comfort over delayed rewards, producing a persistent conflict between a hedonistic present self and a goal-driven future self. The brain's tendency toward hyperbolic discounting gives the present self a home-field advantage, causing future benefits to seem less valuable than immediate relief. That misguided expectation produces promises to a tomorrow-self who feels like a stranger. An urgent reframing of 'later' exposes its false promise and motivates immediate action. Small, immediate steps short-circuit anxiety, generate momentum, and secure progress before motivation or willpower dissipates.
Read at Psychology Today
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