The article discusses the evolution of parenting perspectives from a rigid belief in a single correct method to a more flexible, responsive approach. The author's experience with three children illustrates that what works for one child may not work for another. They emphasize the importance of adaptability, aiming to meet the individual needs of each child with patience and mindfulness. Through this process, the author finds that a presence-based approach fosters connection and resolution over frustration, leading to a healthier parenting experience for both parent and child.
When I first became a parent, I thought there was just one 'right' way to parent. Now that I have three kids, I've become more flexible in my parenting style.
What worked for my first didn't work at all for my second. Techniques I'd previously sworn by...only left my new baby shrieking louder.
By the time our third child was born, I had zero expectations...but no illusions that any one approach would work universally.
These days, I'm less interested in labeling my parenting style and more focused on being the parent my kids need in that specific moment.
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