Enmeshment in parent-child relationships occurs when clear emotional boundaries do not exist. This can lead to children feeling obligated to fulfill their parent's emotional needs, rather than cultivating their own identity. Such dynamics can manifest in behaviors where children prioritize their parent's needs over their own independence. Although not abusive or intentional, this pattern hinders healthy development. As adults, children may struggle significantly with guilt and loyalty issues, making it essential to address these patterns for healthier relationships.
Being a parent is a complicated job, and nobody does it perfectly. Yet some mistakes are harder to see than others. When you, as the parent, need too much from that child, you become enmeshed.
Enmeshment can appear that all is well to your child's friends. 'Wow, you're so close to your parents. You're so lucky!' But internally, the parent expects or even demands loyalty.
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