The 'Hero Child' and the Achievement Obsessed Adult
Briefly

Family roles are prevalent in most households, evolving based on dynamics. In dysfunctional settings, these roles stabilize chaotic environments, with the 'hero child' emerging as a prominent figure. This high achiever seeks external validation through success, often leading to perfectionism and emotional struggles in adulthood. While they might experience fewer depressive symptoms than other roles, the constant chase for approval creates a cycle that hampers self-worth, impacting their relationships and sense of identity as they grow.
The 'hero child' uses achievement to hold the family together, chasing perfectionism for control and validation, often facing maladaptive struggles into adulthood.
In dysfunctional families, roles like the 'hero child' emerge to restore balance but also create a never-ending cycle of seeking external validation.
Read at Psychology Today
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