At 17, the author became a caretaker for her baby sister, feeling both an immense attachment and a sense of responsibility. This situation strained some friendships and caused anxiety as she shifted her focus from peers to family. Conversations revealed her growing alienation from her social group, as friends responded differently than expected. Over time, therapy and distance helped navigate her complex feelings, ultimately strengthening her relationship with her sister as she learned to balance care with her own needs.
After all, the adults I had shared this sentiment with had always seemed to appreciate how caring and helpful I was being. This was the first time that I realized that my circumstances might be alienating me from my own peer group.
When my youngest sister was born, I became severely attached to her and seemingly took on the responsibility of being one of her caretakers.
I didn't realize it at the time, but to spend more time with her, I had begun to skip hangouts with my peers and even lost a friendship.
It has been more than ten years, but I still remember that text.
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