The letter discusses a parent's shock at their mother's decision to move abroad for a romantic opportunity after spending years as a caregiver. Initially expected to continue her role, communication breakdowns lead to tensions, particularly as the family was contemplating another child. The advice highlights the importance of clear agreements and understanding that caregivers have their own lives, aspirations, and choices, which should be acknowledged rather than taken for granted.
Your mom spent, I'm guessing, three or four years at home with the first baby, giving him good home care all the way through preschool. That's a gift from her that's worth literally thousands of dollars.
Your mother is allowed to pursue happiness and adventure in her life, separate from her caregiving role. It's essential to recognize that she is not obligated to remain an unpaid nanny.
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