I've Discovered Who My Husband Really Is as a Parent. This Feels Very Bad.
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I've Discovered Who My Husband Really Is as a Parent. This Feels Very Bad.
"The problem is, my husband is constantly judging his brother's & SIL's parenting and his brother's daughter against ours. This feels gross to me."
"If our daughter stopped being easy to feed, would he judge her like this? If we had to make imperfect choices in parenting, would he judge me?"
"I imagine the parenting judgment part of this will naturally resolve itself when your daughter inevitably becomes more challenging at some point."
A parent expresses concern over their husband's judgment of his brother's parenting style, which differs due to their daughter's unique challenges. The parent acknowledges their own child's easy temperament but questions the fairness of the judgment. They reflect on the potential for their own parenting to face challenges in the future and recognize that the judgment may be more about rivalry than parenting differences. The parent hopes for a resolution as circumstances change over time.
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