The article narrates a parent's initial anxieties about their child's transition to middle school, heavily influenced by their own past experiences of bullying. However, the narrative shifts focus from the parent's fears to understanding their daughter's unique worries about fitting in, managing responsibilities, and navigating new environments. The importance of separate experiences and emotional growth is emphasized, supported by insights from psychologist Dr. Emily Edlynn on autonomy-supportive parenting. This highlights the crucial need for parents to recognize and validate their children's specific concerns while letting go of their past.
"It's fine," she said in a not-so-fine tone. "I'll just figure it out on the first day. I want to leave now."
I had to let go of my past and pay attention to my daughter's needs, as she had her own concerns different from mine.
Dr. Emily Edlynn explained that parents often want to protect their children from the painful memories of their own middle school experiences.
My daughter isn’t my past self; I need to support her through her own challenges.
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