I Refuse to Do Free Work for My Family. They're All Having a Meltdown.
Briefly

A 19-year-old working at a daycare struggles with family expectations in caring for her siblings' kids when she visits home. Despite her love for children, she feels manipulated into babysitting while hoping to relax with her parents. Attempts to communicate her desire for adult interaction are met with guilt trips from her family, leading her to assert herself by suggesting a monetary charge. This resulted in family conflict and misunderstandings about her intentions. The article emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and self-advocacy in familial relations.
Families often know how to push your buttons because they're the ones who put them there. Your needs and boundaries are just as important as theirs.
Setting boundaries is a crucial skill to develop, especially in family dynamics. You have every right to demand respect for your time and energy.
Read at Slate Magazine
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