I Just Discovered My Husband's Secret Punishment Method for Our Toddler. I'm Appalled.
Briefly

In a recent parenting dilemma, a mother expressed concern over her husband’s extreme punishment strategy toward their 3-year-old son, Zephyr. Todd has begun taking away Zephyr’s toys, claiming that it effectively enforces discipline. While Zephyr has become more compliant in response, the mother noted worrying changes in his behavior, including increased withdrawal and protectiveness over his toys. She argues for less punitive forms of discipline, like time-outs, to better support her son's emotional well-being and development, emphasizing that he is merely exhibiting typical 3-year-old behavior.
My husband has implemented a new rule: Zephyr will lose a toy whenever he does something wrong.
Todd believes that Zephyr's compliance is an indication that his punishment method is working.
I've noticed extra emotional changes in Zephyr, like being more withdrawn and protective over his belongings.
There are other ways of enforcing rules, like time-out or taking away screen time or privileges.
Read at Slate Magazine
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