How to Have a Conversation with a Teen, Not Make a Point
Briefly

In the case of Olivia and her father, the relationship is strained due to the father's habit of using demeaning humor and constant lectures. Olivia expresses frustration, feeling that her father only communicates to deliver criticisms rather than engage with her meaningfully. This mismatch in communication styles results in her withdrawal and deteriorating grades. The father's insistence on humor as a means to connect ultimately drives Olivia further away, revealing the necessity of genuine presence over pointed conversation for effective parenting.
Parents often lose the opportunity to truly connect with their kids when they prioritize making points over being present with them.
Olivia feels her father’s humor is dismissive and hurtful, leading to a deeper disconnect rather than connection between them.
Read at Psychology Today
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