The author reflects on their challenging relationship with their parents, marked by constant arguments and social isolation in childhood. Now in an adult community, the parents announce their divorce, complicating their living arrangements and financial situation. The author feels the pressure of parental expectations, particularly from a mother wanting to move in. Striving for independence while maintaining compassion, the author realizes they cannot take on the responsibility of their parents' living situations and seeks to establish boundaries in a balanced way.
I'm trying to be compassionate and recognize that they're adults who want and need independence, and that they might truly be happier apart.
I know you're each trying to figure out your next steps. Unfortunately, I won't be able to invite anyone to live with me or financially contribute to your living expenses.
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