The letter discusses a concern about how a relative refers to behavior modification in her autistic child, implying a need to 'fix' him. The author suggests that instead of directly correcting her language, which might provoke defensiveness, it’s better to model more positive phrasing and share educational resources. The letter emphasizes the importance of fostering a supportive environment by using respectful language and offers strategies to approach the topic thoughtfully and positively.
"Rather than attempting to correct her directly, you may want to model your thinking through your own language. You can talk about children learning how to stop bad habits..."
"Look for books or articles on helping children adopt healthy habits—especially children on the spectrum—and share them with her. Assure her that you are always looking out for them."
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