In response to a heartbroken mother struggling with her adult son's rudeness and his wife's influence, Dear Abby advises her to focus on her own life rather than chasing their acceptance. Abby emphasizes the mother's successful parenting despite challenges, urging her to relinquish hopes for a meaningful relationship unless the dynamics change. She suggests maintaining polite interactions while directing energy toward friendships and personal interests to combat feelings of rejection and heartbreak.
'Doing otherwise has brought you only pain and disappointment. Recognize that however you raised your son, you did the best you could under difficult circumstances.'
'Your daughter-in-law seems to have taken control of your son, and he has allowed it. Sadly, it's not unusual.'
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