The letter writer expresses concern for a long-time friend who is a hoarder but is reluctant to seek help due to embarrassment and shame. The hoarder’s living conditions have become concerning, especially regarding animal welfare. The response emphasizes that while the friend must be willing to accept help, suggesting resources such as self-help books and potentially engaging with a therapist can be effective first steps. It stresses the importance of safety and health over maintaining privacy, advocating for careful consideration of involving authorities if necessary.
Shame can be managed, the loss of life can't. Many people who hoard live in places that pose extreme risk for fire and can trap themselves or firefighters inside.
You might give her the book Buried in Treasures and even ask if she'd be willing to do a book club with you about it, perhaps reading a chapter a month or a week.
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