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The article discusses the challenges faced by an adoptee named Mary, particularly her struggles with substance abuse and attachment after her adoptive parents sail away. It emphasizes how issues of adoption, rather than genetic predispositions, play a critical role in Mary's behavior. As Mary felt secure when close to her adoptive mom, her mother's absence during a pivotal time sparked a crisis. The article suggests that both mother and daughter may benefit from therapy to understand and reconcile their emotional needs.
Despite extensive research, geneticists cannot point to any genes singly or in combination that significantly correlate with mental illness. Mary's behavior is better explained by her struggles with adoption than by genetics.
A clear thread appears to run through Mom's account: Mary struggles as a teen with adoption issues; she recovers with Mom's support; and Mary lashes out at her for removing a crucial part of her support system.
Read at www.mercurynews.com
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