The letter writer struggles with a shift in parental affection that feels tied to their financial success rather than genuine love. Having lived in the shadow of an older sister who received favoritism, the writer's success in business has drawn a newfound warmth from their parents, which they suspect is primarily due to their financial means. While they feel the urge to support their parents, the writer grapples with feelings of resentment and uncertainty about their motivations. They seek guidance on how to navigate this complicated family dynamic without jeopardizing their self-worth or familial relationships.
"Decide how much you are willing to allocate to help your parents, purely out of love and respect for them. When you reach that amount, tell them you can't offer more."
"Rather than setting yourself up for more hurt feelings, do your best to forgive your parents for their favoritism and live your life. Be proud of yourself."
#family-dynamics #parental-favoritism #financial-boundaries #emotional-healing #success-and-relationships
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