Why We Avoid Those Closest to Us When We Need Them Most
Briefly

Recent research led by sociologists Mario L. Small, Kristina Brant, and Maleah Fekete suggests that individuals are as likely to avoid talking to close friends and family about sensitive issues as they are to confide in them. Utilizing a nationally representative sample of 1,000 adults in the U.S., the study examined the propensity to discuss personal challenges. Participants frequently indicated active or passive avoidance when it came to discussing mental health, work-related issues, or personal relationships with their closest ties, revealing a complex emotional landscape that contradicts the belief that closeness facilitates openness.
This study illuminates a paradox in human relationships: while we often assume that bonds with our closest friends and family lead to openness, findings reveal we frequently avoid these conversations.
Despite the expectation that close ties foster communication, research shows we often refrain from discussing sensitive topics with those we feel closest to, reflecting a complex dynamic.
Read at Psychology Today
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