The article discusses the common stereotype that couples' happiness declines after having children. Parenting educator Beth Goss from the Gottman Institute advises that maintaining romance doesn't require elaborate date nights, but rather simple, thoughtful gestures. Recognizing and appreciating each other's contributions in daily tasks strengthens the bond and enhances intimacy. Goss emphasizes vocalizing positive remarks about your partner to reinforce emotional connection. By ensuring each partner has time for themselves and mutual appreciation, couples can navigate the challenges of parenting without sacrificing their relationship.
"Often what we do is, we notice something but we don't vocalize it. You want to notice the stuff you like - 'You look so cute playing with the baby,' or 'Thank you for unloading the dishwasher.'"
"It's the little stuff, like walking downstairs and seeing that your partner put the laundry away, or did the grunt task that you didn't want to do - all that stuff is basically foreplay."
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