Miss Manners acknowledges an indelicacy in touching another diner's place settings but notes that at informal gatherings, understanding and flexibility are warranted.
The expectation at dinner events typically hinges on prior communication about whether guests are to host or pay for themselves; unclear situations can lead to unexpected costs.
Regrettably, some friends fall short of adult behavior by assuming they can unilaterally decide the bill situation, indicating an urgent need for better communication and maturity.
It is recommended to avoid social gatherings where ambiguity exists about financial responsibility, as this pattern you describe is becoming increasingly common.
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