I didn't know until I got out of the relationship and looked back and thought, 'Well, that wasn't good.' If it's all you know then you might not notice when it's bad.
I literally caught them about to do it through the giant bay windows. I may be socially awkward but I'm not dumb, I can do math.
She always overworked herself around the holidays. I made a point of it to share with her how much I saw her mood and mental health change, and why I thought she should really cut back. My observations were always taken as an insult.
The moment I knew was when I realized every time we had a disagreement, she would immediately turn defensive no matter how blatantly wrong she was.
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