The author reflects on how the diagnosis of autism for their son reshaped their understanding of independence. They discuss a transition from valuing self-sufficiency to recognizing interdependence as key to flourishing. The disability community's perspective that independence is an illusion highlights the interconnectedness of people's strengths and weaknesses. The author emphasizes the importance of accepting help, which they found essential in supporting their son, who brings unique joy and talents to their lives despite his challenges.
Independence is an illusion; however, embracing autonomy and recognizing our interdependence allows us to flourish both individually and as a community.
Accepting help has not only been a challenge for me, but it has also proven to be essential in my journey to better support my son.
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