Asking Eric: Why did this stranger think I needed help? Was it my clothes?
Briefly

In a reflective letter, a retired lawyer encounters a young woman who mistakenly assumes he is homeless, prompting him to question how to respond. He contemplates various reactions, including anger and support. Meanwhile, another individual shares their joy in re-establishing the Christmas spirit by hosting a yearly dinner with close friends after years of pain associated with the holiday. When asked to accommodate more guests, they express the importance of maintaining an intimate atmosphere while also seeking advice on communicating future boundaries for invite-only events.
In response to an unexpected inquiry about homelessness, you might consider asking if the young lady is affiliated with a charity, expressing your willingness to contribute to the community.
Having transitioned from a painful association with Christmas to creating a close-knit celebration, it's crucial to establish boundaries while hosting, ensuring your invitation remains clear for future gatherings.
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