Asking Eric: I took a quiet friend to a loud Thanksgiving and got snarky blowback
Briefly

Your son's reaction is needlessly callous, to you and to your friend. Surely, he wants you there for more than just your sides and baked goods.
I’d revisit this conversation with your son, letting him know how his comments felt to you. Tell him that the only sides you’re choosing are food-related.
Thanksgiving is a meal dominated by sides. Are you basically making and transporting the whole feast, sans turkey?
Family togetherness is valuable, but it shouldn’t come at the expense of your own feelings or those of your friends.
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