Two Voices That Lead Us Astray and One That Leads Home
Briefly

The article explores the formative experiences of children as they navigate their relationships with parents overwhelmed by consumerist culture. It highlights the emotional disconnect felt when children seek affection but receive validation through achievements instead. The pervasive consumer culture emerges, promising value through material goods, and reinforces this notion in young minds, leading them to believe self-worth is tied to external accomplishments. As children observe their parents' reactions, they internalize messages that drive them to seek validation through success and consumption rather than emotional connection.
Our young minds buy into this cultural message, and they decide, This must be very important. I'll remember this. So they invite in a new voice that repeatedly declares: If you want to be valuable, you'll need to buy many things.
When I reach for a hug, no response, but when I come home from school with straight A's, smiles, applause, and maybe a trip to the ice cream store.
Read at Psychology Today
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