Why Do We Keep Doing Things That Don't Serve Us?
Briefly

The article explores how we often add layers of suffering to our experiences of pain, as explained by the Buddhist concept of the two arrows. It highlights that while pain is unavoidable, our reactions—judgment and resistance—turn pain into suffering. Common coping mechanisms such as social media use or comfort eating, although tempting, generally do not serve us long-term. The "Mindfulness for Life" program encourages awareness and compassion, guiding individuals to recognize unhealthy patterns and respond more constructively to life's challenges.
The first arrow represents the inevitable pain we all experience, while the second arrow symbolizes our resistance and judgment that transforms pain into suffering.
By recognizing our coping habits, we can respond to discomfort with greater kindness and wisdom, minimizing the unnecessary suffering we create.
Read at Psychology Today
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