During difficult times, offering the right words to friends or loved ones can be challenging. A Reddit thread revealed unhelpful phrases, emphasizing that it is often better to remain silent. Common statements like 'everything happens for a reason' or 'people have it worse than you' can come across as dismissive. Such advice may unintentionally minimize feelings of despair. Instead, acknowledging the struggle without judgment is more supportive. The overall consensus suggests that silence may be the kinder option when someone is suffering.
"After I was initially diagnosed with cancer, a family member tried to comfort me with 'everything happens for a reason.'"
"Never say, 'People have it worse than you,' according to another commenter."
"'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.' No. It certainly doesn't."
"It is what it is.' A line many people are guilty of but should avoid going forward."
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