Miss Manners: It's not really a funeral. Is it OK for me to wear white?
Briefly

The article discusses the evolution from traditional funerals to celebrations of life, emphasizing the importance of personal connection in eulogies. While celebrations aim to create a cheerful atmosphere, Miss Manners warns against the pitfalls of forcing cheerfulness and the risks of unskilled speakers making inappropriate comments. Ultimately, the article highlights that grief and remembrance can coexist, and attendees should not be pressured to suppress their emotions during these events.
"When such talks exceeded the ceremonial part, the event was renamed a celebration of life... it is a lot more cheerful."
"One that many people have noticed is that not everyone is gifted at this... there have been tasteless jokes and revelations."
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