"No reputable financial advisor would suggest risking your entire life savings on a single stock-like the old saying, Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Still, many people who might follow this financial advice often ignore it when it comes to their daily lives: their self-esteem may depend on whether they get promoted to VP at work, or their success as a parent is tied to their child getting into an Ivy League college or making the varsity football team;"
"Just as putting all your resources into one stock is a recipe for financial disaster, relying on only one or two baskets to hold your emotional needs can lead to trouble if those baskets are tipped over: your company might go out of business, forcing you to start over elsewhere; your child might not get accepted into that elite college, or be unable to make the team because of an injury."
Many people base self-worth, purpose, and social ties on just a few outlets such as career advancement, a child's achievements, or a single close relationship. If those primary sources change or disappear, individuals can feel stranded and vulnerable because they lack alternative options. Relying heavily on one or two emotional 'baskets' increases risk when circumstances are beyond control. Diversification of sources of happiness and meaning creates resilience by providing multiple options to switch between. Identifying missing areas and stepping outside comfort zones can help build new roles, activities, and connections that broaden emotional and practical foundations.
Read at Psychology Today
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