It's really great that you've been working in therapy and in an anger-management group to learn how to communicate differently. I have no doubt that you were very upset by your brother's comment, and that his comment was both unfair and unkind.
You recognize that you are overreacting and that your brother's comment struck a chord with you. He knows what buttons to push, and you feel terrible in retrospect for the outburst.
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