Your son’s actions show an unwillingness to participate in his own recovery, which raises the question of at what point does support become enabling?
He may resent your input, but that resentment hasn't stopped him from cashing your checks. So, he's got a choice to make.
Hold the next payment until he sits down for a frank conversation. Be clear with him: You love him, you're concerned for him, you want to help.
It isn't that he doesn't need help. But support without participation is not really support, and it can lead to continued dependency.
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