Dr. Elizabeth Cohen emphasizes that common phrases such as 'I'm so sorry' and 'How are the kids?' can diminish the experience of divorce and seem judgmental.
Instead of projecting sympathy or criticism, Cohen suggests asking support-oriented questions like, 'How can I support you?' This approach fosters understanding and validation.
Cohen warns that saying, 'You seemed so happy together' can imply that the decision to divorce is impulsive, undermining the individual's rationale.
She argues that phrases can diminish the strength of those who leave unhealthy relationships, stating, 'Leaving relationships that are not working is something that could be honored and valued.'
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