My Brother and Sister-in-Law No Longer Want to Put Me Up. I'm Hurt!
Briefly

It can be easy to lose perspective when we really want something like a job or a place to stay. Need does not obligate your brother and sister-in-law to put you up once a month.
Raising two young children and running a house along with working at their jobs sounds like a full plate. Adding a regular houseguest to their responsibilities may be too much for them now.
Don’t waste too much energy on recriminations. You have a housing problem to solve: Turn your focus there. Consider asking your prospective employer if anyone in the office has a room to rent once a week.
Even commuting for a few hours, one day a week, seems worthwhile for an exciting new job, right?
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