Is My Boyfriend Lazy?
Briefly

The article explores a couple's differing views on work ethic and ambition, where one partner is driven by a traditional work ethic emphasizing productivity and financial success, while the other views work as a means to an end, valuing personal satisfaction over output. This divergence raises concerns about compatibility in their relationship. The therapist highlights that this conflict extends beyond work styles to deeper beliefs about worth and a meaningful life, suggesting that such differences could provide an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth.
Your discomfort with your boyfriend's approach could be inviting you to examine these beliefs more closely.
What defines a life well lived? You frame this as a conflict about ambition, but it reflects deeper questions about worth, drive, and money.
Read at www.nytimes.com
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