The presumptuousness of your friend takes my breath away. I can only assume that she has a very different idea of what your relationship is than you do. But that's not your problem, especially considering you haven't talked in 10 years.
You don't owe her excuses and you certainly don't owe her a dinner date three hours away. You could simply block her on LinkedIn and never think of it again.
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