In NPR's Dear Life Kit, relationship experts provide guidance to a 60-year-old widower interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with a 52-year-old widow. Despite shared feelings of affection, concerns arise over the challenges of their past experiences with same-sex partners. Nahman advises against rushing into physical intimacy and suggests a gentle approach by proposing a casual date. Nelson emphasizes the importance of valuing their existing friendship and being comfortable with their current dynamic before making a move, highlighting the inherent risks in both advancing and maintaining the relationship.
Nahman: This one is so sweet. We've lost a lot of romance in the younger generations. My first impression is I don't think a kiss is where to start here.
Nelson: Definitely. If he wants to pursue this and he actually treasures the friendship so much so that he doesn't want to lose it, the first course of action is to come to terms in his own heart about being completely OK remaining where they are now.
Nahman: Thereâs always a risk with putting yourself out there, but thereâs a risk with not. But I think theyâre at an age and experience level where they could weather some of that.
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