#silence-in-conflict

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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
19 hours ago

People who go completely silent during an argument aren't giving you the silent treatment. They learned early that anything they said while emotional would be used as evidence against them later, so silence became the only statement that couldn't be misquoted. - Silicon Canals

Silence during conflict can be a strategic choice rooted in childhood experiences of emotional expression being weaponized.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

People who go quiet when they're angry aren't giving you the silent treatment. They learned somewhere early that their anger wasn't safe to express at full volume, so they built a system where silence is the only container strong enough to hold it without consequences. - Silicon Canals

Silence can be a tool for containing emotions, especially anger, rather than a manipulation tactic.
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