#novelty-seeking

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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
15 hours ago

Research suggests the habit of deferring happiness - 'I'll enjoy life when the kids leave, when I retire, when things calm down' - isn't patience, it's a pattern that simply moves the horizon forward no matter how much you achieve - Silicon Canals

Delaying happiness for future rewards leads to increased misery in the present without guaranteeing future satisfaction.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
10 hours ago

If you've been trying to change your life and keep ending up in the same patterns, the problem probably isn't the plan, it's that the part of you making the plan is the same part of you that built the life you're trying to change - Silicon Canals

Current mindset limits the ability to create meaningful change; the same self cannot solve the problems it created.
#mistakes
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

Readers reply: What would the world look like if people didn't make mistakes?

A world without mistakes would lack innovation, evolution, and creativity, leading to a monotonous existence.
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

Readers reply: What would the world look like if people didn't make mistakes?

A world without mistakes would lack innovation, evolution, and creativity, leading to a monotonous existence.
Law
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Can You "See" Criminal Intent? What Research Reveals

Criminal appearance and perceived remorse significantly influence legal outcomes and sentencing decisions.
#leadership
Growth hacking
fromEntrepreneur
2 days ago

How My Optimism Led to My Most Expensive Leadership Mistake

Excusing negative behavior based on potential can lead to poor leadership decisions and organizational costs.
Growth hacking
fromEntrepreneur
2 days ago

How My Optimism Led to My Most Expensive Leadership Mistake

Excusing negative behavior based on potential can lead to poor leadership decisions and organizational costs.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The people who are constantly checking in on everyone else aren't necessarily nurturing. Many of them are quietly running an experiment to see if anyone will ever check in on them unprompted, and the experiment has been returning the same result for decades - Silicon Canals

Constantly reaching out to others can stem from childhood experiences of needing to earn attention.
Health
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

The Many Faces of Procrastination and Health Behaviors

Procrastination can negatively impact health by delaying doctor visits and healthy behaviors.
#curiosity
UX design
fromMedium
6 days ago

Are we makers by nature-or consumers by design?

The relationship between creation and consumption is strained, impacting designers' creativity and cognitive processes.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
19 hours ago

Psychology says deep thinkers don't realize the reason they feel disconnected from their own life isn't depression - it's that observation became a shelter they forgot how to leave - Silicon Canals

Chronic detachment often misdiagnosed as depression or stress may stem from a learned behavior of observing rather than experiencing life.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

The Secret to Having a Good Vibe (That Others Can't Resist)

A seven-minute Buddhist practice can significantly improve feelings of connection and well-being towards others.
Mental health
fromFast Company
6 days ago

How to navigate uncertainty in an increasingly uncertain world

Artificial intelligence advancements are creating job insecurity and uncertainty for millions, compounded by geopolitical tensions and personal health challenges.
#decision-making
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

People who research every decision exhaustively before acting aren't thorough - they're trying to build a guarantee in a world that doesn't sell them because the last time they trusted their gut without evidence something expensive happened and the body never forgot the bill - Silicon Canals

Chronic overanalysis of decisions stems from past failures, leading to wasted time and missed opportunities.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
Bootstrapping
fromExchangewire
2 weeks ago

The Importance of Confidence in an Unpredictable World

Agencies can help clients build confidence in decision-making by providing clarity, preparedness, and adaptability in uncertain business environments.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

People who research every decision exhaustively before acting aren't thorough - they're trying to build a guarantee in a world that doesn't sell them because the last time they trusted their gut without evidence something expensive happened and the body never forgot the bill - Silicon Canals

Chronic overanalysis of decisions stems from past failures, leading to wasted time and missed opportunities.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I'm 37 and I finally understand why I keep saying yes to things I want to say no to - psychology calls it "fawning" and once you see it you can't unsee it - Silicon Canals

Fawning behavior leads to difficulty in saying no, causing resentment despite self-awareness and understanding of its irrationality.
Productivity
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who need to finish the chapter before they can put the book down aren't obsessive - their brain treats an unfinished narrative the same way it treats an unresolved argument, as an open loop that will consume background processing power until it closes, and that inability to stop mid-chapter isn't about the book, it's about a mind that cannot rest inside something incomplete - Silicon Canals

The brain's need for closure drives the compulsion to finish reading or resolving incomplete tasks.
#longevity
Psychology
fromFast Company
1 day ago

Want to live a longer, happier life? Science says work to be more successful (but not in the way you might think)

Engagement in pursuing goals, rather than achieving them, correlates with longer, more fulfilling lives.
Psychology
fromFast Company
1 day ago

Want to live a longer, happier life? Science says work to be more successful (but not in the way you might think)

Engagement in pursuing goals, rather than achieving them, correlates with longer, more fulfilling lives.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says people who are careful about who they let into their life aren't antisocial or cold - they've simply learned that the wrong person in your inner circle costs more than an empty seat, and that math only becomes obvious after you've paid the price at least once - Silicon Canals

Selective relationship management involves careful curation of connections to optimize emotional and mental capital, recognizing that proximity impacts well-being.
#risk-taking
Poker
fromBusiness Matters
3 weeks ago

Why People Love Taking Chances: From Holiday Deals to Game Shows

Taking risks triggers excitement and dopamine release, motivating behavior through the anticipation of rewards.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Art of Taking Smart Risks

Intelligent risk-taking involves distinguishing between reckless behavior and brave action, with society facing pressure from industries profiting off compulsive gambling rather than meaningful risk-taking.
Poker
fromBusiness Matters
3 weeks ago

Why People Love Taking Chances: From Holiday Deals to Game Shows

Taking risks triggers excitement and dopamine release, motivating behavior through the anticipation of rewards.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Art of Taking Smart Risks

Intelligent risk-taking involves distinguishing between reckless behavior and brave action, with society facing pressure from industries profiting off compulsive gambling rather than meaningful risk-taking.
#motivation
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who want to change their lives but never start aren't lazy - they're waiting for a feeling of readiness that behavioral science confirms almost never arrives on its own - Silicon Canals

Feeling ready to act is often a byproduct of taking action, not a prerequisite.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who want to change their lives but never start aren't lazy - they're waiting for a feeling of readiness that behavioral science confirms almost never arrives on its own - Silicon Canals

Feeling ready to act is often a byproduct of taking action, not a prerequisite.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says a truly successful life isn't measured by what you've accumulated, it's measured by whether the people closest to you feel more like themselves or less like themselves after spending time with you - Silicon Canals

Success should be measured by the quality of relationships and personal fulfillment rather than external achievements.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says people who can't stand being the center of attention even for something good - a birthday, an achievement, a toast - aren't shy or humble, they were raised in an environment where being seen too clearly was a setup for criticism or punishment, and the flush they feel when a room turns toward them is a threat response their body has never retired, even for love - Silicon Canals

Some individuals struggle with positive attention due to learned survival responses from childhood, where visibility equated to vulnerability.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why We Cry Emotional Tears When No Other Animal Does

Emotional tears serve as a unique social signal in humans, communicating feelings and activating empathy in observers.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the reason so many high-achievers can't enjoy their own wins isn't imposter syndrome, it's that achievement was the language they were taught love was spoken in, and they've never learned to receive love in any other form - Silicon Canals

High-achievers often feel unsatisfied with their accomplishments due to a childhood belief that achievement equals worth.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who genuinely know their worth don't announce it or defend it, they operate with a quiet certainty that makes negotiation, justification, and proving themselves feel like a foreign language - Silicon Canals

Genuine confidence stems from self-awareness, not the need to broadcast one's worth or achievements.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the loneliest form of love isn't being unloved its being adored for a version of yourself you've been performing so long that the real you has started to feel like the imposter - Silicon Canals

The worst loneliness is being loved for a false self that no longer exists.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology suggests people who follow through on small promises to themselves aren't just building habits - they're constructing the internal evidence that they can be trusted, which is the actual foundation of lasting self-discipline - Silicon Canals

Self-discipline is shaped by accumulated evidence of personal commitments rather than mere willpower.
fromNature
1 month ago

Dopamine takes a hit: how neuroscience is rethinking the 'feel-good' chemical

Dopamine is one of the most extensively studied neurotransmitters, chemicals that convey signals from cell to cell. It's the one with the highest profile outside neuroscience: often known as the 'pleasure chemical', it's depicted as the hit of reward that people get from recreational drugs or scrolling through social media. That's a gross simplification of what dopamine does; on that, researchers agree.
Medicine
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology suggests people who dislike surprises, even good ones, are running a system that values safety over delight - not because they don't want to feel joy but because joy that arrives without warning feels almost identical to danger in a body that was trained to treat the two as the same thing - Silicon Canals

Unexpected surprises can trigger a fight-or-flight response due to a nervous system trained to perceive unpredictability as a threat.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says the most reliable signs someone is actually not a good person are almost never the obvious ones - they're buried inside behaviors that look generous, caring, and selfless on the surface, and the reason good people keep getting hurt by them is that their instincts were right all along but the disguise was better than their confidence in their own judgment - Silicon Canals

Harmful individuals often disguise their manipulative behavior as kindness, making it difficult to recognize their true intentions.
Mindfulness
fromwww.npr.org
4 weeks ago

Do you lean optimistic or pessimistic? Take this quiz and find out

Optimism can be cultivated and is essential for problem-solving and maintaining hope during difficult times.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says people who keep adjusting their personality to suit the room aren't socially skilled - they're exhausted, and they've been exhausted since childhood - Silicon Canals

Constantly adapting one's personality can lead to exhaustion and loss of personal identity, rather than being a sign of social skill.
Productivity
fromFast Company
1 month ago

5 neuroscience-backed tips for beating procrastination

Cognitive overload, not procrastination, hinders progress on important projects, causing the brain to shift to survival mode and avoid challenging tasks.
fromiRunFar
1 month ago

The Virtues of Intrinsic Rewards Revisited

For my sons, those experiences proved incredibly valuable. Both of them learned to value their athletic experiences not so much for the awards they won or accolades they received but for what participating in those events did for them on the inside. In comparing their childhood experiences to my long-distance running, I realized that many of my own fondest running memories did not come from the buckles or plaques I received but rather from the internal gratification I enjoyed in completing something really difficult.
Running
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

How to train your brain to see possibility instead of doom

Humility and the ability to tolerate uncertainty are essential cognitive skills in a world filled with unpredictability.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says if someone quietly can't stand you they won't usually give you anything you can confront - they'll be just friendly enough, just available enough, and just warm enough that you can never quite prove what your gut already knows, and that precision is intentional because the goal was never to reject you openly, it was to make you reject yourself so quietly that even you aren't sure it happened - Silicon Canals

Invisible rejection creates confusion and self-doubt, allowing individuals to maintain distance while avoiding direct confrontation.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Why High Achievers Can Feel Lost After Success

The pursuit of goals often feels more fulfilling than the achievement itself, leading to feelings of emptiness post-success.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the defining trait of people who always move forward in life isn't how hard they push - it's what they do in the hours and days after something breaks them, because the discipline that actually determines a life's trajectory isn't the kind that shows up in routines and goals, it's the kind that surfaces when everything falls apart and nobody would blame you for stopping - Silicon Canals

Perseverance and recovery after setbacks define those who continue to build their lives, rather than just pushing through challenges.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who go quiet in groups but are completely themselves one-on-one aren't shy - they're people who can only be real when the room feels safe, and a group never does, so they send a polite stand-in to the dinner party and save the actual person for the drive home with the one friend who earned access - Silicon Canals

Some individuals are selective about when they feel safe to be themselves, distinguishing between shyness and carefulness in social settings.
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Our Mistakes Can Prevent and Help Create New Possibilities

Fragmented information and isolated institutions create systemic dysfunction, causing misguided decisions, polarization, and social and environmental harm.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Enjoy the Pursuit: Why Adherence Is the Real Intervention

For my colleagues and me, whose task it is to improve population health, we architect specific health interventions because doing so gives us a measurement advantage. Through good intervention design, we (or the intervention's facilitators) can track attendance, program completion, vital signs, functional capacity, clinical labs, and downstream health utilization. Yet, despite our best design efforts, we still chronically face a fundamental challenge: program adherence.
Public health
Silicon Valley
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Psychology says people who genuinely enjoy grocery shopping alone usually possess these 7 traits of quiet independence - Silicon Canals

People who enjoy grocery shopping alone tend to be introspective, emotionally mature, independent decision-makers who use solitary errands for self-reflection and problem processing.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why You Feel Empty After Achieving Your Goals

The arrival fallacy explains post-achievement emptiness, revealing that many goals are inherited rather than authentically chosen.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The Willpower Myth Has a Very Long History

Obesity is primarily driven by biological factors, not willpower, revealing a cultural misunderstanding of its causes.
Growth hacking
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago

How to Cultivate an Experimenter's Mindset

Treat failures as data; repeatedly test uncertain elements, join experiment communities, and desensitize to non-reward to build resilience and adaptiveness.
UX design
fromMedium
2 months ago

The safest decision is rarely the right one

Data often becomes a safe substitute for judgment, enabling teams to avoid accountability and favor incremental, low-risk product choices over bolder, unproven innovations.
fromFast Company
2 months ago

Why it pays to believe in luck

The oil tycoon J. Paul Getty was rumoured to have said that his three rules for how to become rich were: Rise early. Work hard. Strike oil. It's one of those eminently quotable remarks because it captures something we all know to be true, that luck and chance have as much to do with success as anything else. Yet we don't value people for their luck.
Philosophy
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Why We Struggle With Change Even When We Want It

Change is inherently difficult, influenced by past experiences and the desire for familiarity, but self-awareness can facilitate lasting transformation.
Productivity
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Case for Taking the Easy Path

Ease often reveals genuine strengths; concentrating effort on strengths builds deep expertise while selectively addressing essential weaknesses prevents spreading energy too thin.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Psychology says people who eat the crust first display these 6 traits about delayed gratification that predict financial success - Silicon Canals

Crust-first eating reflects a tendency toward delayed gratification linked to traits associated with financial stability and long-term decision-making.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why We Ignore Our Own Advice

People easily give advice about difficult decisions to others but struggle to follow their own wisdom when facing personal risk and discomfort.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago

Psychology says people who are intellectually curious but socially selective aren't antisocial - they've simply reached a level of self-awareness where they'd rather be alone than accommodate conversations that require them to shrink their thinking - Silicon Canals

Selective social withdrawal can lead to positive outcomes like creativity, contrasting with the negative perceptions often associated with being antisocial.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Beyond Suspicion: Why We Doubt Greatness-and What It Says About Us

Mental mastery and team trust are crucial for success in cycling, transcending past performance and skepticism.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Our Inner Life Rules: Habit or Choice?

Inner rules governing self-treatment are often inherited and unexamined, with therapy providing a chance to consciously choose them.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

3 Rules for Living That Come From Evolutionary Psychology

Positive evolutionary psychology emphasizes kindness, love, and trustworthiness as essential for improving life and understanding human behavior.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

If you find yourself constantly researching topics that have zero practical application to your life and falling down Wikipedia rabbit holes at 2am, psychology says you share these 7 cognitive traits of genuinely curious minds - Silicon Canals

Curiosity is a multidimensional psychological trait with distinct facets that predict personality, emotion, and well-being outcomes, with joyous exploration being one key dimension where learning itself provides intrinsic reward.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why We Still Want the Snack

Brain reward responses to food cues persist even after eating to fullness, potentially driving overeating independent of actual hunger signals.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Neuroscience reveals that people who feel trapped in repetitive daily routines aren't lazy or unmotivated. Their dopamine system has downregulated to match the predictability, which means the routine didn't kill their motivation - it quietly rewired their brain to stop expecting anything worth anticipating. - Silicon Canals

Overly predictable routines suppress dopamine and motivation by eliminating the uncertainty that drives anticipation, causing emotional numbness despite external life satisfaction.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Behavioral scientists found that the human brain doesn't actually crave constant novelty. It craves pattern recognition and mastery, which means the person who finds genuine pleasure in their morning walk along the same route is neurologically closer to fulfillment than the person who needs every weekend to feel like an event - Silicon Canals

The brain's reward circuits respond more strongly to mastery and pattern recognition within familiar structures than to constant novelty-seeking.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Love makes you reckless (literally): study finds romantic cues increase risk-taking - Silicon Canals

Exposure to romantic cues reduces self-control and increases both everyday and ethical risk-taking.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Psychology says people who always pay with exact change display these 7 personality traits that go beyond just being organized - Silicon Canals

They're displaying a fascinating set of personality traits that go much deeper than having their finances sorted. 1) They have exceptional impulse control Think about what it takes to always have exact change ready. You need to resist the urge to spend those coins on vending machines or leave them as tips. You have to plan ahead, knowing what you'll buy and preparing accordingly.
Psychology
Psychology
fromBig Think
2 months ago

Mastering the edge: How success raises the stakes for elite adventurers

Young men, influenced by evolutionary roles and social rewards, are disproportionately drawn to extreme risk-taking like high-altitude mountaineering, causing more fatalities.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

If you're smart but feel like a failure, psychology says say you likely have these 8 traits - Silicon Canals

Ever feel like you're stuck in this weird paradox where everyone thinks you're brilliant, but inside you feel like you're constantly falling short? I've been there. Actually, I'm still there some days. After getting laid off during media industry cuts in my late twenties, I spent months wondering if maybe I wasn't as smart as I thought I was, or if being smart even mattered when I couldn't seem to get my life together.
Psychology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Psychology says people who take the stairs instead of the elevator when nobody is watching display these 6 traits that reveal how they were raised - Silicon Canals

Choosing stairs over an empty elevator reflects ingrained discipline and trait self-control instilled by parents who emphasized consistency and follow-through.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Power of Happenstance in Consumer Experiences

Unexpected product encounters generate stronger emotional connections and higher product evaluations than anticipated encounters.
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