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2 hours agoDepression candy and death stares: inside the secret world of the tennis locker room
Part of the job description is sharing locker rooms around the world with the same people they are charged with battling on the court, an arrangement that can lead to awkward interactions for all involved.
Women
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
20 hours agoPsychology says the most powerful words you can learn aren't 'I'm sorry' or 'I love you', they're 'that doesn't work for me', said without explanation or apology - Silicon Canals
Setting boundaries is essential for personal well-being and requires clarity and confidence.
Psychology
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23 hours agoPsychology suggests there's a certain type of anger that lives inside the most agreeable people - it's the anger of swallowing every small injustice, every dismissive comment, every overlooked contribution for decades, and the reason the calmest person in your family might one day explode over something trivial isn't the trivial thing, it's the fifty years of larger things they never allowed themselves to react to - Silicon Canals
Agreeableness can lead to emotional accumulation, resulting in explosive reactions over seemingly trivial matters due to suppressed feelings.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoYou know you've been lonely for too long when someone asks how are you and you can feel yourself giving the performance answer before you've even decided whether to tell the truth - Silicon Canals
Society often encourages superficial responses to inquiries about well-being, leading individuals to mask their true feelings.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoYou know you've been lonely for too long when someone asks how are you and you can feel yourself giving the performance answer before you've even decided whether to tell the truth - Silicon Canals
Society often encourages superficial responses to inquiries about well-being, leading individuals to mask their true feelings.
fromSnowBrains
1 day agoChloe Kim Wins Third Laureus Action Sportsperson of the Year Award - SnowBrains
Chloe Kim has spent more than a decade at the top of her sport, redefining what progression in women's snowboarding looks like. With two Olympic golds and one silver, three World Championship titles, and eight X Games medals, Kim is in a league of her own in halfpipe snowboarding.
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Mindfulness
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1 day agoI just realized I've never once made a major life decision based on what I wanted - every single one was based on what seemed reasonable to the people watching - Silicon Canals
Living a reasonable life based on others' expectations can lead to feelings of emptiness and disconnection from one's true desires.
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2 days agoThe epidemic isn't loneliness - it's the number of people who've been lonely so long they've stopped registering it as loneliness and started calling it personality - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can be misinterpreted as independence or preference, leading to a lack of recognition of the feeling itself.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThere's a specific kind of tiredness that belongs to people who are the default contact for every family emergency. It isn't the emergencies themselves. It's the low-grade readiness that never switches off, the phone always near, the nervous system perpetually on call for a shift that never formally ends - Silicon Canals
Being an emergency contact involves a constant state of anticipation and stress that affects overall well-being, not just during crises.
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2 days agoPsychology explains people who forgive easily aren't weak or naive - they've simply done the math on what resentment actually costs the person carrying it and decided the debt isn't worth collecting, because forgiveness isn't about the other person deserving peace, it's about refusing to let someone who already hurt you once continue to take up space in a body they no longer have any right to occupy - Silicon Canals
Forgiveness is essential for personal well-being and mental health, freeing individuals from the burden of resentment.
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3 days agoPsychology says the reason so many people crash emotionally in their early 60s isn't retirement or aging - it's the first time in decades they've had enough silence to hear their own thoughts and they don't recognize the person thinking them - Silicon Canals
Highly functional individuals often face delayed emotional collapse in their sixties due to decades of avoidance and relentless life pressures.
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3 days agoI'm extremely lucky to be here': Jelena Dokic on childhood dreams and talking tennis
Jelena Dokic, who spent her whole career navigating painful moments, was abused by her father and suffered from depression and an eating disorder, contemplating suicide at her lowest points.
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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people most frequently mistaken for lazy aren't the ones who never worked hard - they're the ones who worked so hard for so long without acknowledgment or recovery that their system shut down the way any system shuts down when it's been running past its limit and nobody thought to check the gauge - Silicon Canals
Laziness is often a misconception; many labeled as lazy are actually experiencing burnout from chronic overwork and stress.
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fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoI'm 66 and I've realized that there's a specific kind of exhaustion that belongs to people who spent four decades being the one who always said yes - it doesn't show up as burnout, it shows up as a faint feeling that your life belongs to everyone except you - Silicon Canals
Burnout stems from a lack of personal agency, not just exhaustion from overcommitment.
Productivity
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3 days agoPsychology says people who need to finish the chapter before they can put the book down aren't obsessive - their brain treats an unfinished narrative the same way it treats an unresolved argument, as an open loop that will consume background processing power until it closes, and that inability to stop mid-chapter isn't about the book, it's about a mind that cannot rest inside something incomplete - Silicon Canals
The brain's need for closure drives the compulsion to finish reading or resolving incomplete tasks.
fromThe Washington Post
4 days agoJustin Fairfax saw himself as a victim. His family paid the price.
Fairfax, 47, a former Virginia lieutenant governor whose promising political career was cut short eight years ago by allegations of sexual assault, had killed his estranged wife, Cerina Wanzer Fairfax, 49, a dentist, before turning the gun on himself in their home in Annandale.
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