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1 day agoThere is a specific kind of loneliness that comes from being surrounded by people who only know the version of you that keeps everything together - Silicon Canals
The better you are at managing your emotions, the less emotional support people offer you. It's not cruelty. It's perceptual bias. People take your composure at face value because it's efficient for them to do so. A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that people consistently underestimate the emotional needs of those they perceive as high copers.
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