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Medicine
fromSlate Magazine
2 hours ago

Almost Every Time I Orgasm, I Have an Involuntary Reaction. It Terrifies Me.

Severe orgasm headaches can occur in some individuals, causing intense pain and discomfort during climax.
#sex-advice
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

My New Guy Asked Me the Most Awkward Question During Sex. I Don't Think He Wants to Hear My Answer.

Do not feel obligated to lie about penis size; glossing over the question or declining to indulge narcissism preserves comfort and consent.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 days ago

Embracing 'Outercourse' Might Totally Transform Your Sex Life

Outercourse encompasses various sexual activities beyond penetration, enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy.
fromMail Online
4 days ago

Scientists discover the male G-spot is not where anyone thought

The frenular delta, described as a V-shaped or Y-shaped area on the underside of the penis, is packed with specialized nerve endings that create intense pleasure.
Medicine
Relationships
fromHuffPost
3 days ago

The Best Sex Positions For People Over 60, According To Sex Experts

Aging can change sexuality, but satisfying sex is possible with adjustments and a focus on comfort.
#orgasm-gap
Women in technology
fromHuffPost
2 weeks ago

This Sex Position Reliably Gets Women Off, And You May Not Have Heard Of It

Women in heterosexual relationships often experience fewer orgasms than men, but techniques like the coital alignment technique can enhance sexual satisfaction.
Women in technology
fromHuffPost
2 weeks ago

This Sex Position Reliably Gets Women Off, And You May Not Have Heard Of It

Women in heterosexual relationships often experience fewer orgasms than men, but techniques like the coital alignment technique can enhance sexual satisfaction.
Wellness
fromInsideHook
2 weeks ago

This '60s-Era Sex Toy Is the Only One You Need

Wand vibrators remain the most effective and versatile sexual wellness product, outselling technologically advanced alternatives despite nearly 60 years of market competition.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

My Wife Is Begging for a Repeat of My Special Performance in Bed. I Have Bad News.

Personal sexual boundaries should be respected, but societal pressures and misogyny can complicate attitudes towards oral sex.
fromEsquire
2 weeks ago

I Was a Porn Star for Decades. Now, as "the Vagician," I Teach Men How to Have Sex.

When I went into a scene, I fell in love with that girl for the next 50 minutes. I wanted my scenes to not just appear real but to be real to me, because it made my job easier. There were very few girls who didn't orgasm in my scenes. My goal was to get the girl off, because that gave me pleasure.
Women in technology
LGBT
fromQueerty
4 weeks ago

Is your next hookup human? Inside the gay sex bot boom - Queerty

Queer people are adopting erotic chatbots for sexual engagement, continuing their historical role as early adopters of sex technology, raising questions about social and relational impacts.
Relationships
fromQueerty
1 week ago

Sexpert explains the science behind "just okay" oral & why BJs don't always end in climax - Queerty

Oral sex often doesn't lead to climax for men due to different sensations compared to penetration.
Health
fromHuffPost
4 weeks ago

This Simple Oral Sex Hack Is Going Viral

Acupressure at specific points, particularly Large Intestine 4 between the thumb and index finger, can help suppress the gag reflex during oral sex by calming stomach and related meridians.
Miscellaneous
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Have Good Sex as an Aging Man

Men experience significant difficulty aging due to physiological changes and strict masculinity scripts emphasizing sexual potency, making erectile decline feel like a loss of identity and masculinity.
#sexual-desire
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago
Psychology

How to Have More Sex in 2026

Chronic stress and pressure suppress sexual desire; reducing obligation and prioritizing pleasure, play, and imagination creates conditions that allow desire to emerge.
#sexuality
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

I Love Sex With Other Women. I Can't Explain My Most Persistent Fantasy.

Changing unwanted sexual fantasies is difficult, especially when they are tied to negative past experiences.
#sexual-health
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

When My Girlfriend Went Down on Me, I Instantly Knew Something Was Very Wrong. Then I Realized What She'd Done.

Spicy food can cause discomfort during oral sex, leading to communication issues between partners.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

When My Girlfriend Went Down on Me, I Instantly Knew Something Was Very Wrong. Then I Realized What She'd Done.

Spicy food can cause discomfort during oral sex, leading to communication issues between partners.
fromYanko Design - Modern Industrial Design News
1 month ago

This Anxiety Device Hides in Your Fist So Nobody Sees You Using It - Yanko Design

Anxiety tools have a strange habit of making things worse. Fidget spinners draw stares across a conference table, breathing apps demand screen time mid-conversation, and wearable buzzers pulse on your wrist where anyone paying attention can spot them. The very act of reaching for help becomes another source of self-consciousness, which is the opposite of what someone in the grip of a social anxiety episode needs.
Gadgets
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Don't Manifest More Pleasure. Do This Instead

Visualising "your best life" can boost mood and create a sense of hopefulness. That good feeling you get, and the boost in your mood, are nothing to sneeze at, but-and there is a but-feeling good is not the same as creating change. And this is where it can get tricky when you are applying it to a sex life that you actively want to change.
Miscellaneous
#sexual-communication
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

There's One Way I Can Achieve Orgasm. The Trouble Is That I Need My Boyfriend to Leave the Room to Do It.

A woman comfortable with not orgasming during partnered sex should not feel pressured to change this when her partner repeatedly raises the topic despite her clear boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

There's a Trend That Apparently Drives Women Wild in Bed. It's a Mystery to Me.

Verbal communication during sex, including "talking through it," encompasses feedback, encouragement, and shared fantasy building rather than requiring explicit instruction or performance.
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago
Relationships

"I Learned How To Orgasm From Sitting On My Husband's Face"

A woman stops faking orgasms, trusts a patient partner with her sexual inexperience, and navigates a persistent mental block while valuing intimacy.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Relationships

The Secret to Better Sex Isn't Better Sex

Open, emotionally safe, positive sexual communication predicts sexual and relationship satisfaction more than frequency, novelty, or technique.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

There's One Way I Can Achieve Orgasm. The Trouble Is That I Need My Boyfriend to Leave the Room to Do It.

A woman comfortable with not orgasming during partnered sex should not feel pressured to change this when her partner repeatedly raises the topic despite her clear boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

There's a Trend That Apparently Drives Women Wild in Bed. It's a Mystery to Me.

Verbal communication during sex, including "talking through it," encompasses feedback, encouragement, and shared fantasy building rather than requiring explicit instruction or performance.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Want to Teach My Girlfriend a New Trick in Bed. The Problem Is Where I Learned It From.

A man seeks advice on whether to teach his girlfriend a specific oral technique he learned from another woman during their breakup, fearing jealousy despite her stated desire to make him orgasm.
Fashion & style
fromBustle
1 month ago

This Comfy Shapewear Is So Damn Sexy

Honeylove sculpting tops and bodysuits combine lingerie aesthetics with shapewear functionality, offering comfortable, supportive built-in wireless bras and adjustable, smoothing design details.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My New Girlfriend Just Told Me What She Wants Me to Do to Her in Bed. This Feels Wrong.

Communication about specific BDSM preferences is essential before assuming domination means denigration; partners should discuss what submission and dominance actually mean to them individually.
fromConde Nast Traveler
4 years ago

Sex Toys So Discreet You Can Take Them (Almost) Anywhere

If you've ever traveled with a sex toy, you may have endured the slightly awkward experience of TSA rifling through your bags-made worse if your toy starts vibrating mid-search. But it's more common than you might think; after all, 80% of adult American women and 45% of adult men now own at least one sex toy. Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven, the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shop, recommends removing batteries or running down rechargeable ones before travel.
#sex-toys
fromBustle
1 month ago

55 Bougie Things That Make Your Life Way Better - & They're So Darn Cheap

You don't have to overpay for luxury or convenience - you can score the great finds below on Amazon starting at just a few bucks. There are genius inventions to upgrade your daily rituals and make your usual tasks much easier to complete at work, at home, in the car, and more. If you want to make every part of your life feel and look fancier, just scroll on.
E-Commerce
#sexual-intimacy
#lelo
fromBustle
2 months ago
Gadgets

These High-End Sex Toys Are Discounted Up To 50% Off Just In Time For Valentine's Day

fromBustle
2 months ago
Gadgets

These High-End Sex Toys Are Discounted Up To 50% Off Just In Time For Valentine's Day

fromElite Traveler
2 months ago

Ear Cuff or AI Tech Accessory? The Evolution of Wearable Audio

For years, innovation in earbuds centered on sound quality, battery life, and noise cancellation, while aesthetics converged on a single in-ear silhouette. Today, designers and brands are challenging that orthodoxy, reimagining earbuds as jewelry-adjacent objects that sit visibly on the ear, more ear cuff than invisible tech. The idea of elevating earbuds into luxury objects is not new. Over the past decade, bespoke jewelers have produced gold-plated AirPods, diamond-encrusted headphones, and one-off couture audio pieces intended as collector's items or status symbols.
Wearables
fromWIRED
2 months ago

I've Been Reviewing Sex Toys for Nearly 2 Decades. These Are What I Recommend

Sex toys were pretty basic back then. Most were phallic in shape-even if they weren't necessarily meant to be used internally-made of mystery materials, and required actual batteries. The first sex toy I reviewed was a bullet vibrator that not only needed batteries, but its remote control was connected to the toy by a cord that was probably no more than 10 inches in length. Stockpiling AA and AAA batteries to keep my vibrators working was just as annoying as it sounds.
Wellness
fromBustle
1 month ago

This Lingerie Is Sexy As Hell & Shockingly Affordable

These lingerie looks are made with luxe materials like thick satin, delicate chains, and feathers that will make you feel like a silver-screen siren. Just be warned that once you start collecting this kind of elegant lingerie, it can become a bit of a habit-don't be surprised if you find yourself looking for coordinating undies and sexy accessories to complete the aesthetic.
Fashion & style
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
4 weeks ago

Why Do Women Like To Be Called 'Good Girl' In Bed? Sexperts Explain

Women may enjoy being called 'good girl' during sex because it combines mild submission with praise, often indicating a praise kink or power dynamic preference without requiring full BDSM engagement.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I Can Reliably Orgasm When I Have Sex. But It's Actually a Curse!

It's absolutely possible to be experiencing pelvic pain due to orgasm. Firstly, you live in your body full time, and you're present for every orgasm you have, so I'm inclined to trust the pattern you're seeing. Secondly, I've known more than one person who enjoys sex but actively avoids orgasms for the exact same reason as you.
Health
LGBT
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I'm Having Great Sex With a Beautiful Woman. If Only She Knew What I Was Thinking About During It.

A person in a new stable relationship experiences intrusive sexual memories of a previous male partner, causing uncertainty about sexual orientation and presence during sex.
Gadgets
fromWIRED
1 month ago

I'm Physically Disabled, and I Have a Vibrant Sex Life. These Accessible Sex Toys Help

Accessible, adaptive sex toys and sex tech enable pleasurable sexual experiences for disabled bodies across varied abilities and partnered scenarios.
Fashion & style
fromBustle
1 month ago

55 Clever, Cheap Things That Make You Feel Way More Confident With How You Look

Affordable, playful beauty tools and simple grooming tweaks can boost confidence and deliver salon-like results with features like ceramic barrels, adjustable heat, and safety auto-shutoff.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I Went Down on One of My Good Friends. He Has No Idea It Was Me.

A few years ago, I, a 21-year-old man, agreed to take part in a stupid frat hazing activity. Unbeknownst to "Felipe," a 21-year-old man, I performed oral sex on him during that activity while he was blindfolded. At the time, Felipe was just an acquaintance-we didn't become good friends until much later. Felipe's big brother at the frat, "Ron," is the only person besides me who knows that I performed oral on Felipe.
LGBT
E-Commerce
fromBustle
2 months ago

Express Yourself On V-Day With Ultra-Hot Undies - & Get Up To 40% Off

MeUndies' Valentine's Day lingerie offers sexy, comfortable bras, panties, nighties, and pajamas in soft fabrics and inclusive silhouettes with sitewide discounts up to 40%.
Fashion & style
fromBustle
1 month ago

Sexy Bodysuits, Swimsuits, & Lingerie That Are So Comfy

Feelingirl's seamless bralette offers underwire-free lift and separation, selling over two million units, while the brand also offers supportive shapewear-inspired lingerie and sultry bodysuits.
Wellness
fromInsideHook
2 months ago

Spice Up Your Sex Life With 30% Off Butter Wellness Products

Butter Wellness offers an external perineum-targeted personal massager that stimulates the prostate without insertion and a 30% Valentine's Day discount with code VDAY.
Gadgets
fromWIRED
2 months ago

Top We-Vibe Coupon Offers: Couples' Toys and Gift Set Discounts

We-Vibe pioneered app-controlled couples' sex toys, expanded its product range to include prostate and suction devices, and offers significant discounts including Valentine deals up to 60% off.
fromBustle
2 months ago

55 Bougie Things That Are Actually So Useful & Genius

When it comes to your wardrobe, it can be easy to define "bougie" as a piece of clothing that looks or feels expensive - and while the items on this list check those boxes, they're also so clever, you'll wonder how you ever did without them. Scroll on to shop for chic loungewear with extra functional features; trendy and practical fits for both day and night; and accessories that solve all sorts of fashion-related dilemmas.
Fashion & style
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Sex Therapists Say They Would NEVER Do These Things In the Bedroom

The realm of intimate relationships is wide and diverse, providing endless opportunities to discover joy, pleasure and connection. But exploring new ground without consent from both parties may cause unease, betrayals of confidence and even injury. A good sexual relationship depends on this kind of conversation because it ensures that any exploration is grounded in permission and mutual curiosity, strengthening the connection and enhancing the experience for both parties.
Relationships
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Puts a Woman in the Mood?

The mind is the primary sex organ for women, serving as the gatekeeper for physical intimacy, and emotional connection with a partner significantly increases sexual desire.
#erectile-dysfunction
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Husband Won't See a Doctor for His Erectile Issues. Boy Does He Hate the Way I Improvise.

Address erectile dysfunction through compassionate communication, exploring non-penetrative sexual alternatives while gently encouraging medical consultation without judgment or pressure.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago
Relationships

I've Been Having Mind-Blowing Sex With the Same Man for Years. I Know How It Could Be Even Better. He's Not Going to Like It.

Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Husband Won't See a Doctor for His Erectile Issues. Boy Does He Hate the Way I Improvise.

Address erectile dysfunction through compassionate communication, exploring non-penetrative sexual alternatives while gently encouraging medical consultation without judgment or pressure.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago
Relationships

I've Been Having Mind-Blowing Sex With the Same Man for Years. I Know How It Could Be Even Better. He's Not Going to Like It.

Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

This is how we do it: We schedule sex ahead being organised has reaped massive dividends'

Scheduling sex in advance maintains frequency and quality in long-term relationships by eliminating uncertainty and creating dedicated, distraction-free time for intimacy.
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

Is This the Year You Get Back to the Basics of Sex?

In the past, when we've done these analyses, we've seen couples express an interest in bondage play or sensory play. But this year, we're almost seeing a shift towards getting back to basics. I found it so interesting that regardless of gender, age or where you live, people want more oral sex.
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Boyfriend Made My Greatest Wish Come True in the Bedroom. It Couldn't Have Gone Worse.

Consensual sexual fantasies can feel awkward in practice; prioritize clear communication, give partners space, and reassess consent before attempting the scenario again.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I'm Trying to Be Discreet on a Dating Site. One Mistake Could Blow My Secret Wide Open.

Including clear face photos on adult-dating couple profiles typically increases trust and responses, but raises privacy, doxxing, workplace exposure, and revenge-risk that requires mitigation.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Wife Can Get Me to the Finish Line in Many Ways. Except the One I Really Want.

Some men cannot reach orgasm from oral stimulation; trying temporary abstinence, prostate stimulation, or adjusting stimulation dynamics may help but results are not guaranteed.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Ladies, We've Got To Stop Being Afraid To Sit On Our Partner's Faces (They *Love* It)

Men often enjoy face-sitting because it intensifies intimacy, centers the woman's pleasure, and creates a reversed power dynamic many find erotic.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I'm Having the Best Sex of My Life. It Might Also Be the Most Dangerous.

Consensual, risk-aware BDSM that prioritizes safety, slow progression, trustworthy partners, and bodily signals can be mentally beneficial while requiring attention to physical and emotional risks.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I'm Having the Most Intense Sex of My Life. There's Just One Catch.

My husband and I have a great sex life that I love. He gets me off consistently with his fingers on my clit, and my orgasms are body-shattering and euphoric. However, ever since I first had sex, I've always been a little surprised and disappointed by how little sensation I feel in my vaginal canal. I can feel a penis, fingers, and toys go in, but once they're in, it's sort of a vague sensation of fullness, and nice, but not much.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Wife Just Told Me What She Thinks About While We Have Sex. It's So Much Worse Than I Thought.

At any point, any of your partners may have been thinking of someone (or even something) else to help themselves get over the edge. The idea of making someone orgasm with, to put it your way, just you is an illusion. People bring a lifetime of experience to the sex they have, including ways to help facilitate orgasm. Sex alone may not be enough to get your wife to come.
Relationships
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Turns Out, I Actually Can Have Multiple Orgasms

A woman discovered she can experience multiple consecutive orgasms when her partner used lighter, patient touch, overcoming prior sensitivity after the first orgasm.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

I've Tried All The Lubes. These Are The Best Ones

Kush Queen Delta 9 THC lube increases genital blood flow, enhances sensation, and can promote post-sex sleep while providing effective lubrication and self-care.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

When Sexual Frequency Becomes the Silent Issue

Unspoken sexual expectations within monogamy create conflict when desire changes asymmetrically, often after childbirth or menopause, requiring frank conversation to revive intimacy.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Wife Suggested I Try Out a New Sexual Experience. Where It Needs to Happen, Though, Is a Whole New World to Me.

Follow posted rules, bring cash, be polite, tip well, avoid touching performers, confirm extra charges, and consider visiting during slow hours.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Is Midlife Sex The Best Sex?

Midlife women often experience more satisfying, empowered sexual lives due to self-knowledge, freedom from parental duties, stronger libido, and unapologetic pursuit of pleasure.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Modern Morals: I've never had an orgasm - how do I tell my boyfriend I've been lying without wounding his pride?

Persistent inability to orgasm coexists with a strong need to control sexual experiences; enjoys sex but reports never orgasming and tells partner orgasms are subtle.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Can Sex Make You Happier?

Consistent sexual intimacy and close connection significantly contribute to long-term happiness by calming stress, building trust, and boosting emotional well-being.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Girlfriend and I Can Only Have Sex in a Unique Way. She Thinks I'm Going to Leave Her in Search of Something More "Conventional."

Her preferred form of intimacy is to touch herself while letting me pump her mouth. It's been great and honestly hot, and she leans submissive in bed, so it's worked out well on that end, too. It's perfectly fulfilling for me and even unintentionally kinky in a way I like, and she says she enjoys that I'm still actively penetrating her even if not in a typical way.
Relationships
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

6 Real Couples Share How They Beat Their 'Dead' Bedrooms

Sexless marriages can often be revived when both partners commit to change, practice empathy, improve communication, and learn new skills or activities.
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