"Q: I've decided to treat my partner to a sexy weekend away in the new year, and I'd like to buy some toys to bring along to really spice things up. I haven't used them before, so I'm not sure where to start. She has tried some of the bullet vibrators before but said she didn't really like it. I don't have a lot of experience in this area before my current partner so I'm a bit lost as to where to start,"
"This is a great idea for a present, not just for an experience to share together but also solo. It can help increase communication about what works and what doesn't, which in turn improves the rest of your sex life overall. I'm glad to see that you have paid attention to what your partner has said, as it might be more of a shock to open a sex toy present if it was unexpected, or something that they had said they never wanted to try."
Plan a discreet, quiet, moderate-sized toy that matches partner preferences and avoids large or noisy devices. Favor body-safe materials (medical-grade silicone), rechargeable or low-noise battery designs, and simple controls for first-time use. Consider shared options (wearable or remote-controlled vibrators) and solo-play versatility to enhance communication and sexual exploration. Pay attention to previously stated dislikes (such as bullet vibrators) to avoid unwelcome surprises. Discuss expectations and consent beforehand, bring lubricant and chargers or spare batteries, read product reviews for noise and size, and choose an intuitive, easy-to-clean item for a relaxed, pleasurable weekend.
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