When Serena Williams strode onto the Wimbledon grass, her legendary power was never in question. Her serve was crushing. Her backhand was unstoppable. But she wouldn't go to the net. She'd see a short ball, the kind that screams "approach," and she would hesitate to volley and miss the point. Serena was not playing at her full potential because of a story in her head.
Beliefs give us a sense of stability. They help us make decisions, define our values, and navigate daily life. Yet every belief carries a hidden shadow: When we hold firmly to one idea, we unconsciously suppress its opposite. If you believe "I must be strong," you'll likely deny or hide your vulnerability. If you believe "I am unworthy," you may dismiss or suppress your strengths. Either way, clinging to one pole of thought pushes its opposite into the background, narrowing awareness and creating inner tension.