#anti-materialism

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Writing
fromSilicon Canals
9 hours ago

I'm 66 and the most important relationship of my adult life has been with solitude - not as a consolation for the company I didn't have, but as the place where I have always been most honest, most creative, and most recognizably myself, and I spent too many years being embarrassed about that before I understood it was simply how I was built - Silicon Canals

Solitude allows for self-discovery and personal reflection, free from societal expectations and external pressures.
fromThe Atlantic
17 hours ago

How Some People Became So Averse to Hype

Anna Holmes defines 'hype aversion' as a reflex against being told what to like, suggesting that popularity can create pressure rather than signal quality. This feeling can lead to a deliberate choice to resist mainstream culture.
Media industry
#identity
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
20 hours ago

I spent a decade building a career I thought I wanted, a house I thought I needed, and a persona I thought would finally make me real - and one Saturday morning over coffee I sat with the quiet certainty that I had built all of it for someone who no longer lived inside me - Silicon Canals

Building a life based on societal expectations can lead to a personal crisis when the facade becomes unsustainable.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
15 hours ago

Psychology says people who feel like they've been living someone else's life aren't confused or ungrateful - they're often the ones who were so good at adapting in childhood that they never stopped adapting long enough to find out who they actually were - Silicon Canals

Adapting to others' needs in childhood can lead to feeling disconnected and lost in adulthood.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
20 hours ago

I spent a decade building a career I thought I wanted, a house I thought I needed, and a persona I thought would finally make me real - and one Saturday morning over coffee I sat with the quiet certainty that I had built all of it for someone who no longer lived inside me - Silicon Canals

Building a life based on societal expectations can lead to a personal crisis when the facade becomes unsustainable.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
15 hours ago

Psychology says people who feel like they've been living someone else's life aren't confused or ungrateful - they're often the ones who were so good at adapting in childhood that they never stopped adapting long enough to find out who they actually were - Silicon Canals

Adapting to others' needs in childhood can lead to feeling disconnected and lost in adulthood.
#spirituality
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

How to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual

Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

How to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual

Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

I don't know what God is. But the search keeps me grounded and feeling alive | Karen Rinaldi

Finding God amidst uncertainty can be a grounding practice during challenging times.
#decluttering
Renovation
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

I need to declutter my life. But I can't even give my stuff away | Adrian Chiles

Decluttering is a challenge, often leading to keeping unnecessary items and regretting their disposal later.
Renovation
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

I need to declutter my life. But I can't even give my stuff away | Adrian Chiles

Decluttering is a challenge, often leading to keeping unnecessary items and regretting their disposal later.
Design
fromDesign Milk
1 day ago

OUTSIDERS Investigates the Space Between Society and Solitude

Modern design challenges conventional public seating to enhance social interaction and presence in urban spaces.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I recently understood that the tiredness I had been blaming on everything else - the job, the age, the schedule, the season - was not tiredness at all, it was the specific and sustained effort of living a life that wasn't quite mine, and the moment I understood that the exhaustion had a name it became possible, for the first time, to do something about it - Silicon Canals

Exhaustion often stems from emotional labor and the effort to maintain a false persona rather than physical demands of work.
Careers
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

8 status symbols that used to mean success but now just signal insecurity - Silicon Canals

Status symbols have shifted from markers of success to indicators of insecurity and financial struggle.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 66 and I finally learned the hardest lesson isn't that people will disappoint you - it's that you'll disappoint yourself by pretending you don't need what you need until you forget what that even was - Silicon Canals

Neglecting emotional needs leads to a profound sense of loss and disconnection from oneself and others.
fromArchitectural Digest
2 days ago

I'm Done Sourcing So Much Online. Here's Why

The convenience of sourcing online is fraught with more pitfalls than most of us want to admit. Try finding adequate photos of a vintage piece's condition-close-ups of the fabric, video of damaged areas, any images of a piece's rear or underside!
UX design
Remodel
fromFast Company
4 days ago

How to build a quality furniture collection that is affordable and sustainable

Fast furniture offers a cheap, convenient solution for moving but contributes significantly to landfill waste and lacks durability and emotional value.
#mindfulness
Wellness
fromZDNET
4 days ago

These 7 wellness gadgets helped me become more mindful (and they're still on sale)

Technology can enhance mindfulness and wellness through various devices that promote presence, stress relief, and better sleep.
Wellness
fromZDNET
4 days ago

These 7 wellness gadgets helped me become more mindful (and they're still on sale)

Technology can enhance mindfulness and wellness through various devices that promote presence, stress relief, and better sleep.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
5 days ago

How Long Can You Live Your Ideals?

Pat Calhoun chooses parenthood over radicalism, paralleling Elsa Haddish's struggle between her militant past and raising her daughter safely.
Berlin food
fromThe Atlantic
5 days ago

The Anti-Meat Optimist

Bruce Friedrich advocates for alternative protein production methods to satisfy humanity's meat cravings without changing dietary habits.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Lessons for Modern Living From Henry David Thoreau

Thoreau responded to the technological upheavals and social strife of the mid-1800s by choosing to temporarily step away from the everyday turbulence of that time to live more simply, thoughtfully, and purposefully.
Film
Psychology
fromTiny Buddha
2 days ago

The Pressure to Dream Big and the Beauty of Wanting Less - Tiny Buddha

Pursuing financial success often overshadows the desire for a simple, fulfilling life, leading to societal pressure to dream big.
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 66 and I spent four decades chasing the version of happiness I saw in other people's living rooms - and the day I stopped, I noticed I'd been happy in my own kitchen all along - Silicon Canals

I was stealing other people's definitions of happiness and trying to make them fit my life. I'd walk past neighbors' houses at night, see their living rooms lit up through the windows, and think that's what I was missing.
Writing
#minimalism
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Less stuff, more joy: seven lessons from enoughfluencers' on how to live a happier, simpler life

Living with less can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment, as exemplified by Anna Kilpatrick's lifestyle choices.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Less stuff, more joy: seven lessons from enoughfluencers' on how to live a happier, simpler life

Living with less can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment, as exemplified by Anna Kilpatrick's lifestyle choices.
#success
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I've spent my entire adult life collecting achievements to outrun a feeling I can't name - and I genuinely have everything I was told to want versus feeling anything close to what I was promised it would feel like - Silicon Canals

Success can become an addictive trap that fails to deliver true fulfillment, leading to a cycle of chasing achievements without satisfaction.
Psychology
fromFast Company
3 days ago

Why your successful life doesn't leave you fulfilled

Success is subjective; many feel unfulfilled despite achievements due to societal comparisons and not pursuing personal desires.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I've spent my entire adult life collecting achievements to outrun a feeling I can't name - and I genuinely have everything I was told to want versus feeling anything close to what I was promised it would feel like - Silicon Canals

Success can become an addictive trap that fails to deliver true fulfillment, leading to a cycle of chasing achievements without satisfaction.
Psychology
fromFast Company
3 days ago

Why your successful life doesn't leave you fulfilled

Success is subjective; many feel unfulfilled despite achievements due to societal comparisons and not pursuing personal desires.
#relationships
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says people who crave both complete freedom and deep companionship aren't confused - they're experiencing the central tension of the human condition, and the people who resolve it aren't the ones who choose a side but the ones who stop treating it like a choice - Silicon Canals

The autonomy-connection paradox highlights the human need for both independence and intimacy in relationships.
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago
Relationships

When Your Partner Doesn't Share Your Spiritual Path

Partners need common values and autonomy, while exploring codependency mindfully.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says people who crave both complete freedom and deep companionship aren't confused - they're experiencing the central tension of the human condition, and the people who resolve it aren't the ones who choose a side but the ones who stop treating it like a choice - Silicon Canals

The autonomy-connection paradox highlights the human need for both independence and intimacy in relationships.
fromPhilosophynow
3 days ago

Life Sacrifice

The widespread practice of showing the Eid Al Adha slaughtering to children can desensitize them to violence, as many families take pride in this tradition.
Philosophy
#loneliness
Mental health
fromTiny Buddha
3 days ago

If You Feel Lonely Around People, Here's Why - Tiny Buddha

Loneliness in a connected age stems from feeling unseen in social situations, not from being alone.
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago
Writing

I'm 66 and the loneliest I've ever felt wasn't after my children left or my friends moved away - it was the morning I woke up and realized I had nothing that needed me, nothing that depended on my showing up, and the whole day stretched ahead like a road with no destination - Silicon Canals

Mental health
fromTiny Buddha
3 days ago

If You Feel Lonely Around People, Here's Why - Tiny Buddha

Loneliness in a connected age stems from feeling unseen in social situations, not from being alone.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 66 and the loneliest I've ever felt wasn't after my children left or my friends moved away - it was the morning I woke up and realized I had nothing that needed me, nothing that depended on my showing up, and the whole day stretched ahead like a road with no destination - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can stem from feeling unnecessary, not just from being alone.
Fashion & style
fromHer Campus
5 days ago

Consumerism, Conformity, & The Death Of Originality

Social media marketing influences consumer behavior, leading to conformity and potential loss of individuality in personal style.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says if you want your 70s to be the best years of your life you have to stop doing something most people don't quit until it's too late - and the quitting isn't dramatic, it's just the daily decision to stop measuring yourself by a standard that was always someone else's and never actually yours - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth by external standards leads to dissatisfaction; true value comes from personal fulfillment, not societal expectations.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says the most important life lesson isn't learning to make better decisions - it's learning to live peacefully with the ones you can't undo - Silicon Canals

Irreversible choices shape our lives and learning to coexist with them is crucial for mental well-being.
#mental-health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago
Writing

I was quietly unhappy with my life for years and the most unsettling part wasn't the unhappiness - it was how functional I remained inside it, how well I performed contentment, how convincingly I answered fine to every person who asked, including myself - Silicon Canals

Pretending to be okay while feeling empty can trap individuals in a cycle of unhappiness.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific exhaustion that belongs to people who spent decades being exactly what everyone needed them to be - and then one day realized they couldn't remember what they needed - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to losing one's identity and can result in profound exhaustion and disconnection from self.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I was quietly unhappy with my life for years and the most unsettling part wasn't the unhappiness - it was how functional I remained inside it, how well I performed contentment, how convincingly I answered fine to every person who asked, including myself - Silicon Canals

Pretending to be okay while feeling empty can trap individuals in a cycle of unhappiness.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific exhaustion that belongs to people who spent decades being exactly what everyone needed them to be - and then one day realized they couldn't remember what they needed - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to losing one's identity and can result in profound exhaustion and disconnection from self.
#philosophy
Philosophy
fromPhilosophynow
3 days ago

Philosophers on Skiing

Philosophers occasionally write about unconventional topics like buildings, food, and winter sports, expanding their focus beyond traditional themes.
Philosophy
fromPhilosophynow
3 days ago

Philosophers on Skiing

Philosophers occasionally write about unconventional topics like buildings, food, and winter sports, expanding their focus beyond traditional themes.
fromPhilosophynow
3 days ago

What do I have to fear, have I ever diminished by dying?

What do I have to fear, have I ever diminished by dying? I died as lifeless matter and became growing vegetation, then I died as a plant and reached animality. I died as an animal and became human.
Remodel
fromWIRED
3 weeks ago

Spring Cleaning? Here's How to Declutter Responsibly-and Maybe Earn Some Cash

Spring cleaning becomes manageable by separating decluttering from deep cleaning, dividing your home into smaller specific spaces, and choosing one area to start with using proven decluttering strategies.
#artificial-intelligence
Philosophy
fromPhilosophynow
3 days ago

The Prayer the Machine Cannot Pray

Medieval Islamic philosophy provides insights into understanding consciousness and its relation to artificial intelligence.
Philosophy
fromPhilosophynow
3 days ago

The Prayer the Machine Cannot Pray

Medieval Islamic philosophy provides insights into understanding consciousness and its relation to artificial intelligence.
Mindfulness
fromTiny Buddha
5 days ago

When Self-Awareness Turns into Overthinking and How to Stop - Tiny Buddha

Self-awareness can shift from growth to self-surveillance, leading to overthinking and frustration instead of healing and clarity.
#consciousness
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Science

The New Book From One of Our Most Popular Nonfiction Writers Takes On the Mystery That's Haunted Philosophers for Millennia

fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Science

The New Book From One of Our Most Popular Nonfiction Writers Takes On the Mystery That's Haunted Philosophers for Millennia

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

I'm 66 and the thing I learned too late isn't that I should have traveled more or worked less - it's that I spent forty years waiting for permission to want things - Silicon Canals

Waiting for permission to want things can lead to missed opportunities and unfulfilled desires.
Mindfulness
fromTiny Buddha
5 days ago

How to Tend to Yourself When Being Vulnerable Feels Raw - Tiny Buddha

Vulnerability and storytelling foster connection and healing, despite the fear of oversharing.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Your Most Horrifying Thoughts May Not Mean What You Think

Intrusive sexual thoughts are a common form of OCD, often misidentified and not indicative of actual desire.
fromTasting Table
1 month ago

The 'Buy Nothing' Challenge: What It Is And How To Make It Work For Your Kitchen - Tasting Table

Households are pledging not to buy anything new in 2026 - not just in the kitchen space. This movement, aimed toward curbing consumerism, stems from multiple causes, including the rising prices of products (and living, more broadly) and the desire to cut back on impulse spending, reduce waste, and challenge the notion that new products are superior to used.
Everyday cooking
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Holding Inspired Authority

Effective authority fosters growth through listening, modeling behaviors, and celebrating achievements, avoiding both abuse and abdication.
#compassion
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

A Simple Way to "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"

Exuding compassion can transform our fractured culture and foster understanding among differing perspectives.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

A Simple Way to "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"

Exuding compassion can transform our fractured culture and foster understanding among differing perspectives.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Practicing Radical Curiosity: Rethinking Who You Are

Challenging the inner voice and fostering self-compassion are essential for cultivating radical curiosity toward ourselves and others.
Science
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Is Life?

Life's definition remains scientifically elusive, with origin theories suggesting asteroids triggered chemical cascades enabling self-organizing molecules to develop memory, agency, and consciousness from inert matter.
fromTiny Buddha
2 weeks ago

We Are Allowed to Age: Why I Don't Care That I Look Old - Tiny Buddha

"When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you." This African proverb encapsulates the essence of overcoming internal fears to achieve personal goals.
Mindfulness
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I grew up in a house where we didn't throw food away, we didn't leave lights on, and we didn't buy what we didn't need. I thought that was poverty. It took me twenty years to realize it was intelligence dressed in clothes that embarrassed me. - Silicon Canals

Childhood frugality develops cognitive discipline about money that often proves more valuable than abundance, though cultural messaging creates shame around restraint.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What If You're Fundamentally Not Flawed?

But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousness are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away. It was bracing language for an 8-year-old. Not only was I unclean, but even my best attempt at goodness was filthy.
Writing
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

May Confusion Dawn As Wisdom

Confusion can be a pathway to wisdom and understanding rather than an obstacle to overcome, as demonstrated through Zen Buddhist practice and contemporary art.
fromBustle
2 weeks ago
Mindfulness

Why Slow Living Is Gaining Ground in a Culture Obsessed With Speed

Slow living prioritizes quality, relationships, and presence over productivity and busyness, supported by research showing that chronic time pressure increases health risks while rest improves cognitive and creative performance.
Cooking
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

In Search of Frugal Joy

Small, inexpensive acts and discoveries produce immediate, shareable joy and lift mood through simple kindnesses and modest pleasures.
fromThe Conversation
4 weeks ago

Today's obsession with authenticity isn't new - being true to yourself has troubled philosophers for centuries

All of us live in an age where we're bombarded by social media and artificial intelligence - when striving to be your authentic self becomes an increasingly difficult task. Yet, even if it has somehow become a common goal, it is unclear how many of us can truly define the "authenticity" that we say we are pursuing.
Philosophy
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

When I'm Right, I'm Most in Danger of Being Wrong

A boutique's curated, optimistic branding is undermined by an offensive, glittered jacket displayed where nearby schoolgirls frequently pass.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How to Break Free From Expectations and Live Authentically

A child's self-worth and life choices become distorted when built on a parent's fabricated achievements and false expectations.
fromApartment Therapy
1 month ago

I Traded My Phone for an "Analog Bag" at Night - Here's What Happened

As Sierra shared in her video, an analog bag is simply a tote filled with your favorite tactile activities - such as crosswords, novels, journals, or knitting tools - to keep you from reaching for your phone. When I began curating mine, I thought about activities I liked and went from there. Since I primarily work from my apartment, my goal was to create an analog bag that would help me decompress at home after a long day on my computer and phone.
Digital life
Food & drink
fromenglish.elpais.com
2 months ago

The world against vegans: can the movement withstand the reactionary wave and its own crisis of faith?

Veganism faces a modest decline with qualitative shifts: some businesses and high-profile individuals reintroducing animal products while overall veggie numbers remain largely unchanged.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How and Why We Cross Lines We Never Thought We Would

Gradual adaptation in relationships can imperceptibly shift personal boundaries, causing people to cross lines they once believed inviolable through a series of small, seemingly harmless adjustments.
Books
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

7 must-read books for mastering the art of not caring what others think - Silicon Canals

Selective caring and choosing whose opinions matter reduces anxiety, builds genuine self-confidence, and frees energy for personal values, relationships, and growth.
Environment
fromABC7 Los Angeles
2 months ago

New year, greener you: 20 items to kickstart your environmental resolutions

A curated set of reusable, biodegradable, and low-waste household items enables easier adoption of eco-friendly habits and reduces single-use waste.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The art of needing less: 8 habits of people who stopped chasing happiness and accidentally found it - Silicon Canals

Happiness grows from needing less and adopting simple habits like accepting "good enough", prioritizing experiences, and releasing the relentless pursuit of perfection.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

I'm a philosopher who tries to see the best in others - but I know there are limits

Interpreting others charitably—seeing them as protagonists who do their best—promotes understanding, cooperation, and productive learning across differences.
Mindfulness
fromTiny Buddha
1 month ago

Why Protecting Your Energy Isn't Selfish or Shameful - Tiny Buddha

Protect limited emotional energy by setting boundaries, reducing small talk, and prioritizing self-care when depleted.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Choosing Simplicity Over Artificiality

Simplicity, defined as freedom from artificiality, fosters genuine self-worth and preserves dignity against seductive glamour, admiration, and excessive acquisition.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I used to save nice things for special occasions. Now I wear them to the grocery store.

I used to save my favorite clothes for a version of my life that never showed up. The blazer stayed in my closet because it felt "too professional" for a normal day. The heels were waiting for a dinner I'd yet to be invited to. The earrings were longing for an occasion that felt important enough to justify wearing them. Meanwhile, I wore the same outfits on repeat - to work, to run errands, to all the places where my actual life was happening.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Break Free Of Your Own Reality Bubble

The word umwelt comes from biology, coined by ethologists studying animals in their natural habitats. It refers to the world as an organism can perceive it, based entirely on its sensory equipment. A bat's umwelt is built from echo. A dog's from scent. A tick's world is dominated by a single chemical cue that tells it when to drop from a branch onto a passing mammal.
Philosophy
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Myth of Progress

Relentless pursuit of progress can shrink life, prioritizing efficiency and achievements over health, relationships, and meaningful depth—becoming a poisoned gift.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Becoming Nobody

Ego dissolution from psychedelics parallels Buddhist non-self, reducing clinging and increasing well-being, belonging, and openness by revealing impermanence and expansive selfhood.
Mindfulness
fromApartment Therapy
2 months ago

I Lowered My Grocery Bill Using the Japanese Concept of "Mottainai" (I Saved $127 in a Week!)

Mottainai promotes respecting resources by avoiding waste and using only what is needed, fostering mindfulness, thrift, and reduced food and resource waste.
Philosophy
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

Is Life a Game?

Play—self-directed, intrinsically scored activity—provides meaning by resisting external metrics and preventing value capture from ranking, quantification, and instrumental evaluation.
fromApaonline
1 month ago

Philosophy, Technology, and Mortality

This APA Blog series has broadly explored philosophy and technology with a throughline on the influence of technology and AI on well-being. This month's post brings those themes into focus recounting a vital Washington Post Opinion piece by friend of the APA Blog, Samuel Kimbriel. Samuel is the founding director of the Aspen Institute's Philosophy and Society Initiative and Editor at Large for Wisdom of Crowds. We collaborated on a Substack Newsletter about intellectual ambition, building on his essay, Thinking is Risky.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Simple Feeling of Being

The simple feeling of being is the fundamental basis of every momentary perception. What's happening right now is the only starting point there could ever be. The simple feeling of being is without border or boundary. The simple feeling of being is inescapable. It is not something that needs to be created or generated or sustained or practiced. It is what is here already.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I joined a decluttering challenge and got rid of 496 items in a month. I made a point to not throw anything in the trash.

Mesha Griffith gamified a 30-day decluttering challenge, sharing daily purges with family and social media to reduce clutter and curb spending.
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