HuffPost1 month agoRelationshipsThe BDSM Practice We Should Be Applying To Vanilla Sex, TooEmphasizing the importance of aftercare in both BDSM and vanilla sex for emotional connection and well-being. [ more ]
Slate Magazine6 months agoCareerMy Wife Doesn't Know About My "Extracurricular" Activities. The Guilt Is Eating Me Alive.The advice columnist is addressing a question from a middle-aged man who is into BDSM and wants to tell his wife about his kinks. The columnist offers options such as stopping the sessions with the domme or coming clean with the wife. Another question addresses the issue of keeping one's gender identity personal and intimate, regardless of how others perceive it. [ more ]