You're the asshole. It's fine to say something like 'I know I promised it when you were a kid, but the dress is very important to me the way it is, as a memory of your father.' But this isn't about her changing [the dress] (because you seem fine with her future wife significantly altering it as long as it is still a dress), this is about how you don't want her wearing a suit.
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